A MAN DOES NOT ARGUE TO WIN HE ARGUES TO DEFEND WHO HE IS
Ladies, you must never fight a man’s ego unless you’re willing to sacrifice that relationship or your man because when it comes to his ego, a man will be willing to lose everything it doesn’t matter what it is, finances, houses, cars, status even access to his own children he will walk away from it all, but he will not let you win a battle over his ego. That’s not just pride but how men are programmed. A man is wired to protect his sense of identity, his respect, his role and his manhood. It’s not a game for him, and when a woman tries to challenge that, she is trying to match his energy, compete with him emotionally, or dominate the relationship, what she is really doing is trying to be the man. Please remember there can only be one man in a relationship, the other one will either walk out or slowly fade into silence emasculated, bitter and broken. We have produced a generation of women who have been told to never settle, be the boss, never let a man have a last word. But here’s what no one tells you, the moment you try to fight your man the way you will fight another woman you have already lost because a man does not argue to win, he argues to defend who he is. If you push him far enough he won’t cry, beg or plead but he will switch off and once a man emotionally shuts down you are no longer in a relationship but you are living with a ghost. Some woman say he’s changed, no, he didn’t change he adjusted; he has adapted to survive.
Ladies, you cannot fight with the man’s ego.
#somnalaticsanity #impiloyobunala #kingsomnala #ubuhlesithembu
Ladies, you must never fight a man’s ego unless you’re willing to sacrifice that relationship or your man because when it comes to his ego, a man will be willing to lose everything it doesn’t matter what it is, finances, houses, cars, status even access to his own children he will walk away from it all, but he will not let you win a battle over his ego. That’s not just pride but how men are programmed. A man is wired to protect his sense of identity, his respect, his role and his manhood. It’s not a game for him, and when a woman tries to challenge that, she is trying to match his energy, compete with him emotionally, or dominate the relationship, what she is really doing is trying to be the man. Please remember there can only be one man in a relationship, the other one will either walk out or slowly fade into silence emasculated, bitter and broken. We have produced a generation of women who have been told to never settle, be the boss, never let a man have a last word. But here’s what no one tells you, the moment you try to fight your man the way you will fight another woman you have already lost because a man does not argue to win, he argues to defend who he is. If you push him far enough he won’t cry, beg or plead but he will switch off and once a man emotionally shuts down you are no longer in a relationship but you are living with a ghost. Some woman say he’s changed, no, he didn’t change he adjusted; he has adapted to survive.
Ladies, you cannot fight with the man’s ego.
#somnalaticsanity #impiloyobunala #kingsomnala #ubuhlesithembu
A MAN DOES NOT ARGUE TO WIN HE ARGUES TO DEFEND WHO HE IS
Ladies, you must never fight a man’s ego unless you’re willing to sacrifice that relationship or your man because when it comes to his ego, a man will be willing to lose everything it doesn’t matter what it is, finances, houses, cars, status even access to his own children he will walk away from it all, but he will not let you win a battle over his ego. That’s not just pride but how men are programmed. A man is wired to protect his sense of identity, his respect, his role and his manhood. It’s not a game for him, and when a woman tries to challenge that, she is trying to match his energy, compete with him emotionally, or dominate the relationship, what she is really doing is trying to be the man. Please remember there can only be one man in a relationship, the other one will either walk out or slowly fade into silence emasculated, bitter and broken. We have produced a generation of women who have been told to never settle, be the boss, never let a man have a last word. But here’s what no one tells you, the moment you try to fight your man the way you will fight another woman you have already lost because a man does not argue to win, he argues to defend who he is. If you push him far enough he won’t cry, beg or plead but he will switch off and once a man emotionally shuts down you are no longer in a relationship but you are living with a ghost. Some woman say he’s changed, no, he didn’t change he adjusted; he has adapted to survive.
Ladies, you cannot fight with the man’s ego.
#somnalaticsanity #impiloyobunala #kingsomnala #ubuhlesithembu
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